No simple answers for strings other than; play what you like, what is comfortable, and if you can get good quality… invest in yourself.
Personally, because i switch a lot between the electric and acoustic, i prefer relatively light strings on my acoustic guitars. My current favorite are the “gypsy jazz” strings. D’Addario EJ83L .010-.044 (light strings)
Even on a full sized dreadnot there is very subtle if any volume loss. The benifit is i don’t feel like i’ve been trying to bend metal bars with my fingertips, and is a much more enjoyable playing experience for me.
That said, experiment and see what works best for you. I really don’t think the music popo will arrest you for trying new things. As long as you dont damage your guitar or you, new and wonderful music and noises are made by not necessarily doing what everyone else is doing or has done.
Good luck, and please let everone know what you pick and are playing 🙂