[Skyman911]

Depending on the song I’m playing, I use a modified mini F. Index finger on the first fret of the B string, middle finger on the second fret of the G string, ring finger on the third fret of the A string, and the pinky on the third fret of the D string. I kind of use the fleshy part of my palm to mute the high E string. And, if you can, you can use your thumb to fret the first fret of the low E string. You don’t need to use your thumb though to get the similar sound as the mini F. This way you don’t need to barre the B and E strings with your index finger. I use both depending on what song I’m playing. You may want to try it, it may be easier for you, and it sounds pretty much the same.

[Skyman911]

Some really good advice here. I went through a number of different guitars when I first started, mostly because I didn’t know what I was really doing, or looking for. My personal opinion is, but the guitar that fits you the best. You’ll be spending a lot of time playing it, so it should be comfortable, especially the neck shape and feel. Some are thick, some are thin, some have wider string spacing, and the list goes on. So many factors to consider. So I would take the advice of going to a good music store (not guitar center) and try out some guitars. Don’t buy anything that day, and go home and think about it a bit. Go back again and play the ones you liked. You’ll probably know your answer then. Try not to be brand specific. Many less expensive guitars play and sound just as good as the expensive brand names.

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Everyone is different, and you will get a different answer from most everyone. If you only know three chords, I guarantee you can pick up your guitar and start playing songs anytime you want. There are literally thousands of songs with only three chords. I’m like @jumpinjeff, and had no innate musical talent when I first started. For me personally, it was about the three year mark where I felt like I was “getting it”. I didn’t need to think about the next chord, chord shape etc..

But what @jumpinjeff mentioned, you have to be diligent. You need to play everyday if possible. Leaving your guitar in its case, and hoping you will get better someday will just lead to frustration. One of my teachers gave me some great advice. Be happy where you are at, don’t get discouraged at where you aren’t. We all want to get better and improve. But if I’m frustrated at where I’m not at, you will never get there. I promise, many, if not all of us have been in your shoes. I remember practicing, and practicing and being so frustrated that I hadn’t improved as much as I had expected given the time I was putting in. There was only ONE big thing that changed. Acceptance. Once I started accepting where I was at, and being OK with it, and having fun with it, everything changed. Playing became everything I wanted to do, instead of dreading another crappy practice session, and wondering if I’ll ever “get there”. You are already there, just open your eyes and let it happen.

[Skyman911]

Congrats! Now go get that guitar. You deserve it.

[Skyman911]

Progress over perfection. Don’t spend too much time on each lesson. You can jump into the daily challenges as soon as you want. If you think they’re too much, you can go back to the 30 days to play. But I would just jump right in. You’ll feel overwhelmed, but that’s OK. Just do what you can do. You’ll honestly be surprised with your progress when the challenge comes around again.

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One of my teachers lived about 40 minutes away. On days I didn’t want to make the drive, we did online lessons. We could play together without much interruption, and would use Zoom. There were a number of settings we both had to get dialed, or it would cut one person off. It’s been over a year since we did lessons, and I can’t remember all the particular settings. Seems like “original sound for musicians”, and a couple of settings in my “settings” tool on my laptop. Zoom does work if you can figure out the correct settings.

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Thanks for sharing your experience. Are you using standard teardrop picks? I don’t think I could fit both my index and middle on a teardrop. Maybe a larger triangle pick. Glad to hear this is working for you. For the first 4 years I was learning, I didn’t use a pick. Mostly due to my inability to use one properly. I’ve been working hard this past year to use a pick, and do so everyday. Best thing I did was stepping up to a thicker pick, and trying to have the least amount of the tip exposed. Usually around an 1/8 inch or so.

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I think one needs to be careful trying to stretch the pinky, or any fingers. It isn’t hard to injure the fingers more when trying to manipulate the stretch. Stretching the fingers takes time, and forcing it will lead to injury. I know it’s hard, but just keep trying to persevere. Others here use Chinese balls, putty and other gentle exercises can help with loosening up the fingers, thus giving you a more relaxed stretch. I used to just try and hold the index finger on the first fret, and the pinky on the forth and hold the position until I start to fatigue. If that is too much of a stretch, move down the fretboard and have your pinky on the 12th fret, and the index on the 9th fret. The distance will be shorter, and you can eventually start to move down the fretboard. Also, a shorter scale guitar will help. Most of my guitars are 24.9″ scales opposed to the standard 25.5″ scale. The difference in fretting is significant.

[Skyman911]

I always play with a strap for this very reason. Well, sometimes I like to try and stand while playing too. Crazy how much more difficult it is.

[Skyman911]

Thanks Pete. Also thanks for being so active and helpful. You’re great at supporting others and sharing your insights.

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As far as anchoring, both of my teachers had me basically anchor my palm on the bridge. This keeps your hand in a stationary position, so it’s easier to know where each string is every time. I tried to learn the pinky anchoring method, and it just didn’t work for me. I see a lot of folks using that method. One advantage I find with the palm on the bridge is, if I’m only playing say the low E, A, D strings, I can use my palm to mute the G, B, and E strings so they don’t ring out while picking. I’m sure you know this, but if you pluck one string, the other 5 will also ring out due to vibration. This can make the strings you are actually playing be less clear since the other strings are also ringing out. By muting those, you get much clearer tone. I’m struggling with muting the low E, A, D while playing the high G, B, E strings. Not as proficient there.

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You can do this. I suspect you started dabbling in guitar because you like it, and wanted to learn. So yes, guitar is for you. You sound very motivated, so I know you have what it takes to put the time in. Please don’t give up. Guitar can bring so much joy to ones life, and I think you want that in your life, but some frustration is getting in the way. Everything you mentioned can be resolved, and I think you did the right thing by reaching out to the community. There are some very insightful folks on here, and everyone is so willing to help.

I would say, put less pressure on yourself. Slow down. You don’t really miss anything with this course as most lessons come back around. I feel like I’m a bunch of half baked technique sometimes, and I’m OK with that. As long as I make a little progress along the way. Keep pushing, it WILL get better.

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Have you ever looked into some personal instruction? TAC is great, and it is one of my tools I use. However, as good as this program is, I don’t think it can replace personal one on one teaching. Maybe find a teacher that can do like a one month class, maybe once a week. I did personal instruction along with TAC for just over a year. My teacher really liked the TAC lessons, and I was very open with him about using TAC as well. He did feel like some of the lessons were pretty advanced for some beginner players.

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Keep in mind that almost 90% of new guitar players quit after the first year. If you’re still committed, you’re in the 10%. The first year or so is the hardest for sure. I’m also curious if TAC is your only method of learning?

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My last teacher tried to get me to play in the classical position. I just couldn’t get comfortable with it. He was classically trained however.