Hi Mave,
If I understand you correctly, Tony is explaining things too fast for you to wrap your head around…? Or the play-along is too fast…? Both of those can be helped by slowing down the playback speed (lower right hand corner of video, hover and a little list shows up with 1x checked, but you can go up for slower speeds– .5, .75, or down for faster speeds, but for the video it does make Tony sound a little drunk). You can also repeat the video parts you have trouble with by sliding back the little ball on the progress line. If you already know this, sorry! I don’t know what you know.
Did you do the 30 Days to Play, so you know what the tab means and all that? Then all I can say is to stick with it, go slowly, give yourself some grace as a beginner. We were all beginners at some point. I’m 74, into my 3rd year, and feel I lost most of my first year due to frustrations of various kinds. I learned to be patient with myself.
You will get this, do not despair!