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I do spend a lot of time playing guitar, but when my wife wants me to spend some time with her, I do it. I would hate it if I made her feel like my guitar playing was more important than spending time with her. I’m lucky in that it doesn’t have to be either-or. I can play guitar and I can spend time with my wife. I’m also lucky that after 16 years, I really love my wife’s company. There are occasions where I want to be playing guitar and my wife wants to do something different with me. Friday nights for example. She likes to watch a movie with me, and I would like to be participating in the Friday night VOM. But I watch a movie with her and never mention the VOM. I never made a vow to love, honor, and cherish my guitars, but I did make that vow to my wife. I do cherish my guitars, but she’s number one!😃 Anyway, my advice is to first make sure hubby knows he is number one, then work in your guitar time when you can.