Welcome to the TAC community @Mrjoshc ! I understand your frustration with fingers just not cooperating the way we want. Many fingers share the same tendons with other fingers, and they often move together. Through exercises that do individual finger strength and finger placements on different frets, you’ll eventually build strength and train your fingers to act more independently. This will also help with keeping the hand closer to the fretboard.
With regard to the 30 days to play, just keep doing your best, but try and keep the flow moving forward. Do the lessons for a minimum of 10 minutes and mark complete. You can still work on the lesson, but don’t get stuck on it. Move to the next lesson, even if you haven’t “perfected” the lesson. TAC teaches progress over perfection. You will continue to get better by following this practice. Everything builds skills and helps you progress and get better.You can always revisit a lesson later.
As a side note, if you really want to revisit something again, hit the heart to save a lesson to favorites. Your favorites show up under your profile.