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  • petelanger

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    April 24, 2026 at 7:12 am in reply to: Extremely frustrated

    What @Skyman911said!

    Feeling frustrated means your expectations are beyond your capabilities and that is totally controllable. It’s okay to want to be better, but it’s not healthy to think you should be, deserve to be, must be better. Ratchet down expectations, I had to do this a lot during my first several months of playing.

    Playing guitar is a lifelong journey, everyone would like to improve even the very best in the world. The key is being pleased with what you can do right now and excited about what tomorrow will bring. Take that approach and then you will find yourself suddenly surprised when out of nowhere (it seems) you can do it. Yesterday I actually rejoiced because I struggled with the lesson so much; knowing that being challenged mightily fosters mighty growth down the road.

  • petelanger

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    April 23, 2026 at 8:21 am in reply to: Extremely frustrated

    In general, TAC never requires you to be perfect at any of the shown skills before moving on. It’s cyclical and things come back again giving you ample opportunity to get better at them!

  • petelanger

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    April 23, 2026 at 8:18 am in reply to: Extremely frustrated

    @MrKimm
    So I don’t recall the exercise specifically but you mention going to 1.5 and 2x speed. This isn’t necessary anywhere in the program. It’s a commendable effort to try to get there as it will help you with your transitions to go fast but you always want to learn slow.

    Try to get it right slowly and then gradually increase speed. If you can get close to doing a challenge at .75 speed you are fine to move on.

    Hope this gives you encouragement Matt!

  • petelanger

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    April 22, 2026 at 6:25 pm in reply to: starting over

    @jon-lidzgmail-com

    Welcome back Jon! I would suggest going through the skill courses and see if you want to brush up on anything: https://tonypolecastro.com/skills/

    But I would jump right back into the daily challenges as soon as possible. Based on your experience you should be able to pick up from there. There is not need to repeat anything, TAC is already cyclical and has repeated elements.

  • petelanger

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    April 20, 2026 at 3:22 pm in reply to: Vibrato Help

    I use the bend technique mostly, moving the string up and down slightly. It doesn’t take a lot of movement to produce a bit of vibrato. The other methods don’t seem to work for me at this point in my journey.

  • petelanger

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    April 19, 2026 at 2:23 pm in reply to: Acoustic Tuesdays Show

    I’ve been in TAC for close to 2 years and this is the first time I ever heard of the “Acoustic Tuesdays Show”. I discovered there are a bunch of shows on YouTube but the newest is Season 2 Episode 12 which was done 8 months ago. I don’t know if Tony intends to continue the series. It looks entertaining!

  • petelanger

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    April 19, 2026 at 2:03 pm in reply to: Losing Enthusiasm

    @gmhendersonme-com

    I haven’t hit the doldrums, Gary but I have run into some patches of less excitement. I was so raw when I started here that the level of teaching has been quite challenging through my first 2 years, and it looks like that will continue for a while. I wasn’t skilled or gifted and it’s still going slow. I have supplemented TAC with some books on music theory, another music program that had the word academy in it’s name and I’m learning luthier skills on the side, doing my own setups.

    I gravitate back to TAC though, this thing has way more magnetism than the other shiny objects out there. If you’re not being drawn to it then I’m not sure what that means.

    When I first started I had a long list of songs I wanted to learn and it was my goal to be able to play them as soon as possible. But I soon realized that my skills were totally inadequate to play most of them and I began rearrange my short term goals to learning the basics for as long as necessary, so that down the road I could learn songs at 10 times the pace I was able to do in the early going.

    I do rehearse a few songs and I’m keeping a list of the ones I want to play eventually but my desire to learn songs and develop a playlist has waned greatly. I would say I devote less than 20% of my time to learning, rehearsing songs. I’m much more focused on overall command of the instrument. But each person’s journey is unique and your path may look completely different from mine.

    Music is a language and as students of guitar we are learning one of music’s dialects. Songs are how we get exposed to music, and they reflect an individual’s (or small group of people’s) expression of ideas using the language of music. When we enjoy a particular song we want to mimic it and that by itself is absolutely a desirable goal, as long as it continues to reveal the (musical!) vocabulary and grammar to us as players. I don’t want to let the pursuit of learning a particular song become a detriment to learning the language that the instrument speaks.

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  • petelanger

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    April 18, 2026 at 11:11 am in reply to: Small Win – Martin Backstage Member Spotlight

    Love the story! Thanks for sharing that. “Martin Backstage” – I learned something, so cool that you’re a member and all that you’re able to do to help veterans!

  • petelanger

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    April 24, 2026 at 1:27 pm in reply to: Extremely frustrated

    I love the “mirage” reference Coach! It brought back a memory for me when I was in my twenties and addicted to smoking. I had realized that my brain was tricking me into thinking I needed to smoke: light up and things will change, you will feel better! Every time that I lit up it was evident that the promise was fake! That smoke wasn’t making me feel any better. It’s kinda disgusting; it stinks up the room, my clothes, hands and breath and just like the 60,000 cigarettes before it, it was no better than the one before it! And on top of everything it’s also making me poorer every day!

    Once I fully grasped all that, I quit and haven’t had one to this day! That was 41 years ago!

  • petelanger

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    April 20, 2026 at 12:11 pm in reply to: Losing Enthusiasm

    I get you bro! I grew up in Montreal, know all about Canadian summers that last about a week and freezing nights in late August foreshadowing about 7 months of winter around the corner. That’s why I moved to Florida!

  • petelanger

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    April 19, 2026 at 12:42 pm in reply to: Where exactly are the benchmark songs located??

    You can always navigate back to the previous benchmark: Old Man right from the home screen.

  • petelanger

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    April 19, 2026 at 12:41 pm in reply to: Where exactly are the benchmark songs located??

    @Jim-NavarreFL we know how to find them. We let them come to us. Benchmark weeks are scheduled once per month. The next one will probably be in about 3 weeks time; “Ain’t No Sunshine” (Bill Withers).

  • petelanger

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    April 18, 2026 at 11:51 am in reply to: Help with Chords

    @Wenda I just remembered this exercise that really helped me when I started out. I did this everyday for at least a month, and I still use it sometimes in warmups before playing sessions:

    https://youtu.be/2onjflSqHNo

  • petelanger

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    April 17, 2026 at 3:07 pm in reply to: Help with Chords

    Okay, I found my way back into the 30 Days to Play and yes in week 2 you get the G and the C and finally the D chord. As I recall I was able to form these chords when I started but transitions in and out were very bad and slow. I had some mutes in all 3 of them, I wouldn’t say it was an entire thud show, but far from clean.

    They continued to be that way for months and months into the daily challenges. I didn’t let my deficiencies in making chord transitions deter me from doing TAC. Some weeks were very limited, I could do parts but never get very far in the more advanced lessons (Thursdays and Fridays). But I got a little better day by day, week by week. Year after year. I still have some issues today, but a lot less than during my first month of TAC.

  • petelanger

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    April 17, 2026 at 2:51 pm in reply to: Help with Chords

    It’s been a while since I took the 30 Days but I don’t recall there being a new chord each day. I really hope you can get it sorted and come back into this program. There isn’t a better one. I know that some beginners have spent more time on the 30 Days before moving on. I’ve always recommended not to delay since the principles will be repeated in the daily challenges, but to each their own. You can delay it if you want to, it’s your program! I wish you well, @Wenda !

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