[N-lightMike]

Well, I’m sorry to hear this Michelle.

Let’s start with what your husband said, I don’t think he said what he meant. I think he misses spending time with you and didn’t say it. That’s too bad, that he thinks he has to talk you into something instead of being honest with you.

Second, it’s not balance if you didn’t think of it and want it. It’s coercion, not the same thing. That sad part is, you will slow down naturally, and that’s how you will find your balance. But being forced to his choice of R&R retirement (doing nothing while I die) won’t help you find balance.

That’s my 2 cents. I hope I haven’t offended you.

MG 😀