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@KayMesser first of all, give yourself a “big win” for not giving up!! Perseverence is a great attribute to have. Secondly, another “big win” for reaching out for advice.
I would say to look at the definition of what makes a good goal. Goals need to be SMART, that is, Small, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and T?? I forgot what the T is for but if you get discouraged about not making your goals, then make some new goals that are more achievable. It sounds like you already did that, so nicely done!! Also a change of focus can provide a fresh perspective. I think you are already doing a great job of re-focusing and moving forward. And I believe that one day you WILL be able to play that song!!!